Stephen M. Schindler - Rest in peace

Angel! Steven M. Schindler;






Angel voice hushed, with God is your home now. Whisper sweetly, and lovingly, to your late wife Eleanor and child Beth. that you loved so dearly. Surrender now with your pure heart, to be with them. I am here with you angels of mine, and all is right. In our abounding world, we all surround our souls to God.


Listen Angels! Steven speaks - he comes to calm you now, with a sodding and loving voice, he becomes your guiding light, he is a Star I made him one! Awake, asleep, he loved you so deep. you three souls will comfort us all... who walked your path. with  your wisdom you will grace the havens.


Steven core  of my faith in human, sweet spirit. You have become my guiding friend, a small voice in me reminds me of the silver linings to having you in my life. In this chaotic world of ours you were peace, grace. You made an unclear light forever shining.


A Star shining above Steven!

Thanks, my Angel !

Angels from high above, guard us all, with your compassion, courage, kindness, generosity and love... We learn from you. Your goodness can never be denied. Sweet Steven! my friend, fiancé in past, you are and have been the source of my strength and inspiration. Please my angel, stay by my side! Pure soul...

Y.B
March 27 2013

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Passover! Sade time for me

Hear gos again Passover is hear and I am

I miss you Momy

Yearning For your love Mommy, I turn to you for trust,
And you are not hear, I look to you for love,  empty space.
 You are  gone. Mommy,the pain is unbearable, I miss you
No one to inspire me, encourage me, give me answerer's,
For all that a child needs..only you could lift my spirit..


I wanted my world to be reassured by you.
my yesterdays , and my tomorrows, need
To have you near. but you were not in my world
to lift me up, to bring smiles in to my face,
And joy in to my heart .. I need you Mommy...

YB

18 March 2013

Waiting For You

If but for the brief time that we know each other,

Waiting for you

Our hearts were embraced.  all colours now are


Brighter, and hope now is engraved in our hearts.
Is happiness knocking on our doors?  yes yes yes!
I hope it's not  dreams that are sold, but can never
Be bought,


I am ready to by them.  are you? my heart tells me
That yes, Be that faith makes things possible,
But dafinetly  not easy. keep searching girl
That heart of mine,  it begs to let it guide in peace
Please heart tell me for certain, should I wait? for thee?
And my heart reply,  I never lie, take your time girl


Use your grace and  love, for to love and be loved
Is to feel the sun from both sides. love is a big word.
filled with spirit, emotions, joy, love is a  worthy gift.
Sooner or later you will be mine, and I will be yours
And we will be us. our  dreams will be shared never ending
For our  world will be a  better place  with our love...

Y.B

March 14 2013

Intuation and Knowledge within my Heart

Gait to heaven opened!
Where the shining full Moon and stars.

Intuition within my heart

With silvery  light , for me to stair at.
As the Orchid  in my vas  was looking  at me.
I have seen your light from heart tonight.



And I hoped  that  you will shine  for me.
Come dawn, you  miser!  where  gone,  but the
Orchid  was steel in  my vas  by my side.
No sorrow for your flight,  a golden sun light
Soon takes your place within my hopes and dreams.
My universe is again bright.


And now my heart is full of hope,
that hope,  feels bright, sparkling presence,
Silent yearning,  for  that  Mr. right ! not a  miser!
I have to be patient, the time is endless , countless
Hours will end. and I will let yesterday go.
For tomorrow to arrive with glory.


 I will keep the dream alive with an open heart
Will Bide calmly, trust   blindly. when day is done
Longing for you   my  men,  is not through.
I promise! the dream will reside in my heart for all tomorrows
Reflecting mirrored hope. for eternal love with the right one!

Y.B

June 1. 2013.

Committing the Golden Rule to Life not to memorys

My soul, spirit and heart in harmony

It takes the whole of life to master living.
I am somehow learning, that my journey is not
Completed, the last Paige is not written yet.
I steel have the faith that tomorrow will shine
My soul is a wondrous thing, it will clime up.

This inner progressiveness of understanding
Between my spirit,   and soul.  two parts of me
Is the  most beautiful thing; I found-it by looking
For it passionately, wishing for it, dreaming about it.
I know it needs a divine interference for it to happen.

I am glad that I kept day dreaming  about it.
Perhaps  that's  the way I  projected  that divine
Interference to be part of my life, it  is a privilege
To welcome you in to my life I never knew that
Such a power could exist until the day I embraced-it

I am longing for my mother, lord! she is with you
Take care of my Mama, she is in my heart for ever
I know that I am in the Presence of a divine power
Who would support me and make my life more complete
than I ever dreamt it could be. Thank you God.


I turned to you for trust, and you give it openly to me
I look to you for hope, and faith, and you give me the
Answers , encouragement , inspiration, when I am down
You lift my spirit  up and take my thoughts to places
Where my troubles seems so much further away,
Tomorrows  golden Rule. will be to my life,  not to  memory's;

YB

March 7 2013

The value of love

If  I  know  what is the value of love
It's because I  never been lucky to know love
Perhaps as a child,  I felt love.  and that is the
Reason for the survivor instinct in me.

I am walking through the journey of my life
with my thoughts reflecting the loving
 Hopes of my heart

If  I know what loves value is, it's because
I dreamt about it, wished for gentle fillings ,
My thoughts of being loved are my mornings
Inspiration and my night's comfort.

They  take me up above  the staff that clouds
Parts of my life, when ever I  think of love,
I dream of happy moments  in  the past , present,
And  the  future, which will bring me closer

To my wish to be loved,  a fantasy  come true.
My own day dreams, marvellous richness, of the soul.
Full of joy, that most people will ever dream of.
my Private  fantasy,  with my chosen people around me.

My heart will be a place for comfort, all around
my Eyes a window to my soul, all can look at and trust.
My spirit welcoming all who deserve it.
My hands to reach out for all who needs, a heart
That understand, and doesn't judge...

3 march 2013

YB

Could I package faith

Somehow, out of all what I experiment in my  life
All the opportunity's of each day that could
have slowly shaped my life as dripping water
Shapes the stone  

Could I package faith

God have send my way a lot of them, I have
 Missed It all. courage makes everything looks clear
It almost seems like I was given a meant to be
Moment when everything felt clear and calm
The day I choose to live my X the abuser..


That turned out to mean the world to my self esteem.
To the one person I consider to be my care giver Me...
The most wonderful of all things in life is LOVE...
Of family, children, loved ones. whom one can
Have a  relationship of trust, the  privilege of having


Them in your life to share a glowing, depth, beauty,
And joy. perhaps in  one of  my  future life's...
Mr God I'm so often at a loss of finding  words,
To tell you how much I am disappointed in the path,
I have taken, in my imagination I wish for sunshine.
And  package of faith...

Y B

24 Feb; 2013

That child in me

Where my loveliest dreams go.

Inside of my heart there is a place,
Where my loveliest dreams reside.
Where my highest hopes and faith
Are kept alive. where my deepest
Feelings are born, and where my
Favourite memories and sad ones
 Are tucked away for life...


That little girl in me is A  power In my  life...
For as long as my heart is ticking , she will
Be a lasting source of life for me.
Only the most special people in my world
Will be welcome  Inside my heart, And for life
They will reside in my spirit and soul.
They will be part of my world.


And every time I get in touch with my
Hopes, my feelings, my faith, my spirit
Or  my memories, the good the bad and
 The ugly. I realise how deeply my life
Has been touched by my inner child.
She is the bright spot in my Heart!


January 16 2013

Y B

Invisible soul mate

Feed me my dreams











Take me along with you. feed me my dreams.

As I fall in behind you, in you, all over you.

Take me out of my self, shake me, unsettle me.

Set me down to follow, a new path, a new direction.

  

But please leave my heart as it is.be a tender part.

Of my dreams, imagination, and a peaceful moment

Let me give you my love, my passion, my warmth
Let me crawl inside your heart, your spirit,  and soul...


 

Y B  Feb; 10 2013

written 21 of may 1998

A friend I have never seen

To a friend I have never seen

A friend I have never seen.
Thanks for your friendship,


I have never met you, yet I know you.
When I confronted sadness, felt misfortune, and defeat, you told me that I am brave.

You are the poster boy of loyalty. All  the love you give in your life springs from the love you knew as a child! Obviously you knew a lot of love for you give it with your heart and spirit, with generosity and kindness.

You couldn't take away the pain I had in my heart, but you brought a glowing light of true friendship into my heart.

Every day I have your friendship is a gift. In my life,  if I have had a wish for a true friend, I got me one.

This friendship makes me happy and wise.

Thanks for your GIFT.

January 13 2013

Y.B.

when it rains look for the rainbow

Faith can place light in the darkest hearts

For love is strong as death,
Harsh as the grave,
His tongues are flames,
A fierce and Holy blaze.
Endless Seas and floods.
Forest's and rivers never put out,
Love is Infinite Fire.

(Song of Songs)

How magical!

Where do we find the one worthy of that kind of love? We are told to love generously and we will be loved back. Give generously, it will come back to us generously. We should have the courage of superheroes in this life.

We become superheroes. We tried looking up and down, searching for the rainbow, watching out for the rainbow, praying for a rainbow... Perhaps it is best not to expect anything back. Life will be much happier, our hearts brighter, and our spirit freer....

Y.B.
10 January 2013

The golden tread between loving hearts

                                    

I love you my girl child!




When you are a mother, you are walking with your heart outside your body every day of your life.
Every day of my life, in the last thirty years, my
Heart was a dry land,  a dead desert, for my only girl was absent from my life...  Nothing in my life was more thrilling than the day she was born...
And now she is back, and I am very happy, and grateful. She is wonderful,  trying really hard to make up for times lost.

Sweet girl of mine, thank you! I love you. I hope you know that I too am trying very hard. It is not easy for both of us, the anger is eating at me so this is a good time and place to say to my girl.

To you dearest child of mine: I am sorry if I am putting pressure on you. I want you to know that I acknowledge your efforts and how hard you are trying. Me too, sweet girl. I am trying, I would love us to make our relationship work.

Thank you. I love you and I am blessed that you opened your heart and soul to me and invited me to your world... Thanks. I love you, my child, for that...

May God help us both to make a go of it. Sweet heart, I am so proud of you. You are a great mother and an amazing wife, a fantastic teacher and a wonderful friend.

Please be kind to yourself: listen to your body and let me be your mom! I miss it. I love you. Let me care for you.

8 January 2013

YB

A Let love gide your life



Let love guide you

 

SOMETIMES AN ACT OF KINDNES

Happens in a flash

But the memory of it

Can last a lifetime




Thanks baby! for calling me!

   love  Mom
Y B
January 13 2013

MY Healing Dream with Ardi my Baby.

A! for life I am the only mother
 you going to have

I had a healing dream with my baby, and I am looking straight into my baby's eyes.
You are my baby, and I am your Mama! Don't ever forget that Little One. 
Your sparkling eyes speak to me worthy talk.

The power of our sharing will hold till death. After all we are a mother and son! Speak to me, my boy! In my heart it rains. My eyes are dried. No more rain, I shed all of my tears. My boy has come from afar. With a phone call he took my heart. Along your first steps I knew that my love, for always,
will be yours,  my son.

I know that  I have to forgive my boy. And I am telling you in my dream: how am I to do that? And you replied, with a smile. Do not think of it, as do I deserve to be forgiven?
Ask yourself: do I deserve to be the one who always forgives?

The answer is "yes". Living in forgiveness means letting go of misery, pain, anger, getting rid of the  wounds of the heart and spirit. Then celebrate the opening of a door through which happiness, joy, and a clear vision, will enter.

Thanks, sweet son my  baby!

That was my healing dream...


January 7 2013

YB

May we have PEACE on earth

Every life has its value!  Joy to the world,
  May we have  peace on earth. 

There is hope ! There is hope..

We humans must have in our heart Joy of the world that we live in.
We have times of darkened days, and cheerful days, our
Happiness comes from choosing to help our fellow humans.
Glory to those who believes in the highest form of peace on earth,
Among men. let us pull together and pray for peace.
Let our hearts fell with love and compassion, and let-it flow
From one heart to another, that will be my prayer gift, to the world.
For 2013... life is a precious gift to all.
Let us have faith,  and make our self necessary to someone in need


May we have peace on Earth

Dec 31 2012

YB.

Thank you Sid Pelston for an amezing wish to the World

A Ross from my garden to thank you!

Another Year of Memories We Take into 2013 

2012 meant countless, different things to each of us, 

hopefully some joys and not great sorrow.

But whatever sadness and challenge the year brought,

let fate bring you an abundance of hope and joy tomorrow.
 

Did we learn anything new in the year soon to be in our past?

One thing is cherish what we hold dear to help make it last. 

My wish for my friends, my family and those I barely know

Is to think positive and make the best of whatever direction we go.  

I believe we are blessed with our own uniqueness, and have great value.

 

We can make tomorrow better than all of our yesterdays.

In these troubled times for so many, we can offer our support,
Lend a helping hand,

be kind and know that people, whoever they are, matter.

I wish for you that your efforts, whatever they may be, are fruitful.


May some of what you seek become reality. may you and
Those you love have a future, of great fulfilment and sense

Of purpose..  Wishing you a truly rewarding 2013….

20 littel Angels and 6 gardian Angels

You are our  light
 That is  cutting
In   the  dark



This time,  when the world is in need of peace
Even God needs help sometimes.
So he called  up on his favorite children for help.
 He choose twenty little  Angels to be the sweet  feeling
 Behind the world, the light that will Gide us.

The strength behind all things, the compassion and love
For the infinite,  he choose  twenty Little ones and six
Teachers who are their guardian Angels.
 The ones who educated them, taught  them,
 Loved  them , took care of them at  school.

There Teachers,  there guardian's, there second parents.
With that  in my heart,  I  believe that  your most
Precious treasure,  your Little Baby's are not gone!
They are in all of our hearts. they are our  class of  Angels
Together with their  guardians.  we can see them , feel them,
And hear them. they will be the Angels within all of us.

For ever in our hearts and spirits!
They will be the   bridge to haven for humanity.
The class of Angels we lost physically, are with us in spirit.
They are helping God in his hard work to Gide us,
To put in our hearts and spirits the pure joy Angels feel.

Most heavenly thoughts, most serenity , and peace.
I cry with you,  I feel for you...
The parents, the family's, the school.
Newton..  thanks for giving humanity
A class of Angels and their guardian Angels to show
Us the path to good and no evil.  God chose them

 To Roam  in the havens as his class of Angels with there guardian Angels.
 To  spread good, compassion,  love, and peace in  our world.
But most of all to heal the world for all humankind
To the family's,  the  Parents,  the  friends of the class of Angels,
To sandy Hook School in Newton Connecticut, ,  our hearts are with
All of you..

Just a Canadian Mom

On  21 Dec 2012

YB



Friend, Angel

Dearest  Angel

I want to meet you Mr Angel.
I want my face to light up from your light.

I want my life to Heal Mr Angel.
When are you going to show up,
To introduce your self in my world,
you will be the only one,  whom
I may be sincere with, and share with you.

My feelings,  of shame , heart brake, and pain.
How I was  rejected by my Baby's,
Ya the ones I carried in my body, and give life to.
The heart eke that gos with-it is unbearable.
I am to a point of braking, help me dear Angel .

Friend Angel,  help me   understand,
How an evil man  their father can clam, to love them,
 But that is the only way, he knows how to love..
By hearting. mentally, physically,  emotionally, what a sick mind!
I want you to know every thing that I feel in my heart.

The pain, agony, shame, loneliness, anger, it is
Over whelming it drowns my spirit.
Dear Angel friend, I need you! help me  see the light,
The good, the  love, the  compassion, and  forgiveness
For all.   my baby's,  my X,  in my world, no evil.
I maid a mistake falling in love with  a monster, an evil man.

Please Angel knowing all of that can you steel  love me?
Can you  steel like me? for I feel unlikeable!
Who would like A women that even her children don't love her.
Perhaps you my friend Angel, could love me,  and like me.
I  thank you for being my friend, my guardian, and my voice.
You are the Angel within my heart...


Y.B
Dec 16 2012

sing a song

the dance and music of life

Sing A song, to the wisdom of  my heart strings.
For that  wisdom , inside  my heart is whispering.
weak up!  this is the morning, of your life. the power
Is yours the sun  is shining bright in your world.


pluck at those  strings,   with the help of God.
A  harp, and violin tunes,   Dance!  the dance of  life.
Sing  songs  of  glory,  and pride , for  you are special.
You turned out to be! a survivor,  you are the best..
choose of who you  want around your World.d

Walk with them hand in hand.
Desire all which is in you.  desire all which is
Beyond every thing you dreamed  about.
Desire all that you thought you will never
Be able to achieve. for all  of it is  in you.

All the light  of the world is in your heart strings.
keep praying,  and Desiring,   perhaps your  karma
will walk you to the path... of  your  baby's  heart. and
That may bring him  and his children to your life.
It is the unbelievable dream.. it is in you.
In  your heart string.

YB

14 DEC 2012

Those who are hurt

The key to life love

Those who are hurt the most, 
Are the ones who care a lot.
For they are very sensitive,
I am thankful for the happy days,
That my faith,  and my  hopes,  allowed
Me to believe, that love will soften,
The heart of my child.
The courage  to dream,  the unbelievable dream.


And the faith, and hope, to appreciate
The miracle of Hanukah .
with my Sh and grand children
In my home.
That is a miracle of a sunrise ,
After waiting so long in the dark.
Life is a mystery!

Dec 2012 YB

Ardi Imseis Human rights Lawyer with no humanity in his heart!

Light up your heart! 

With no human rights,  for his mother,  and his children.



My son my Baby, for Each day passing by that I am not permitted

To see you, or my grand children.  slowly shapes my life.

As dripping water  shapes the mountain rocks .

baby!  as A human right lawyer, I am asking for your professional opinion.

What would you advice a mother, like me to do?

What would you advice children,  like your children, to do?



As a professional, how is it that you can not see the crime, that you are Committing

Preventing your children from having a grand mother. because she  is

JEWISH...and proud to be!

I like to meet your professors, at Colombia university. who taught you.

What would be their advice to you? ...you can't teach some thing that

You don't practise your self...baby! you are wasting your abilities

To bring peace to your heart, make your life an art of love, let your

Baby's have there birth right, a grand mother. who wants to love them.

So the human right Lawyer! when are you going to practise what you are

 Preaching? I am asking you for help what would you advise me to do?

Be kind , and know that I am your Mother! that loves you.

who would love to meet my grandchildren that I love......

YB

Dec;10 2012

For my voice can speak now

For my voice can speak now!

The rules are written for a mother.!

Love your child, attend to him for life.

No matter what. I am not welcome to my

 Child's life, I am Jewish he is an Arab.....

You never expect that he will betray you,

That 2 pounds Baby that had to stay in the

Hospital 3 month after birth that Baby.

That you lived for days  and Ninth.  never left

His side held his tiny hands, rubbed his tiny body,

cradled him  in your arms inside the incubator.

I milked my Brest to feed him mothers milk.

that was my child the boy!  I loved more than life.

The boy! that  his Father didn't want me to have

 Wanted  nothing to do with us! wanted me to abort!

He didn't care about us or wanted to be part of our life's.

To  him we were just  the  durthy  Jews!

My Élan the premature baby I give birth too

He wounded and broke my heart and my soul .

 Took  all the Joy out of my life!

I curse his Father for tempering, with

the love between, a mother! and her son.

He taught  he is above God. he is the one.

Making the rules. he will reward himself,

By punishing me by Alienating my children

Took there birth right to have a MOTHER!  .

Michel Imseis  there is neither reward ,

Nor punishment,  in  this world for you.

your Karma! will follow you for eternity.

And I will love my boy for life....

That is what  Jewish Mothers do..

Y.B

DECEMBER 6 2012

Our rose is in Heaven


ROSE my friend your heart was so full
of goodness. your soul so pure, and your
Eyes, so bright, they will light every ones path.
your spirit will forever soak in heaven's rays.

She did more than
 listen she understood!

My friendship with you for ever will be  calibrated.
Having you As my friend,  was for me like
Walking  in a  clear day morning .
Thank God For the gift he gave me ! a Rose,
 Full of grace, and peace, charm, generosity, and love

And now I will walk with you in my heart.

The first time  you meat  me,  you new that
I was in need of a friend , you Handed me
Your hand.   and you invited me to your world.
Sweet lady; dearest of all Roses I thank you.

For ever friend,   you will be my Rose. in the
Garden of my heart. and soul my angel Rose..


Even now that you are busking in the  lights.
Of The heavens with all the angels around you.
If you happen to meet my Mama!
Tell her I love her, up  above the rainbow.
I will be looking for both of you....

For ever you will be tucked in my heart
For ever you will be in my memory's

Rose life  is a song  love is the music
And you my dear friend Had P.H.D
In both....

Dec; 2 2012
YB

You know who you are

You know what you did , to your mom
You attacked  me like a vice's tiger
All night long  had  night  Mair's
 with vice's tigers biting me...
The pain was unbearable

vice's tigers

The 13 of October 2012 will for ever be
 Engraved  in my mind my heart and soul
 Reminded me of the 12 of October 1997
 At your wedding when you took the pearls
That I give you as a wedding present and you
Let your  girl friend put them around your neck
Rather than give your mother the Honor..

you accused me of cheating on your father
You reminded me of him the Sam abuse he
 Was putting me through, every day of  life
That I  spend  with him,  was pure hell
you are not wordy to have a mother like me.
 My wish for you to feel the pain you endured on me

 you were mysteriously a stranger who wanted
 to shred my heart and watched it  bleed
I should have gone after a wide world full
Of  beautiful people
Rather than dream of a day that my child, 
Will give me the respect and love that
 A mother should get, but no she watched her father
That was her model.....the respect will never come
My life past by and I am steel waiting......

YB
March 2012

If I could start over, would I have children again? No!

I wish I could Ignore loss.
Then the memory of what I have lost
cannot be retrieved...

Everyday from 1979 to 2012 the years that I left my ex.  
One question is always on my mind, If I had to do it all over.  Would I do it? Would I have children? No!

That is a very hard thing for me to admit too, But that is my honest answer. for all the investment that  I put in to having
 Them, the emotional, and physical abuses I went through with their father and them. I was used as a breeding vessel, a cleaning lady, a chauffeur and bread winner who never got respect from them nor their father nor his family...

My children had an evil teacher, their father, This is my true confession.
I had no reason to continue a miserable marriage, except for my children.
But the time has arrived that I could do it no more. My soul was broken...

I am allowing the world to eavesdrop intensely
On a conversation between me and my heart.
At  that point I knew if I had to do it all over again, I will not do it.
I wouldn't have children! The only child I will have would be me.
Perhaps I would have taken care of me, love me, respect me,
And believed in my heart that I deserved every moment of it.

July 7 2012

Y.B

My dearest heart Regrets!

Ardi A Lesson in History for you and your United Nation!

To my son the  Human right lawyer Who do's everything in his power 

To Deming all about me and my people the JEWISH people

For the Palestinian's. hear is a lesson in HISTORY!

My children Shunt me! 

I never felt old until regrets took the place of dreams in my life.

Looking back I regret all the years from when  13 to 34 years of age.

If I could erase them I would. I dreamed  of a home, a family,

children, love, compassion, tenderness, loyalty!

 Instead I got abuses, Name calling, disrespect, let down,

 Betrayal, hatred, absence of loyalty and  so many year,

 Hard to forget so many years of humiliation, shame and pain...

And all of that for being Jewish and an ISRAELI! my Antisemitic children  

1. A human right lawyer!who never give me a chance to meet my grand-kid's  

2. A teacher daughter wonder what kind of values she can teach?

 3. A computer programmer who logs on my blog and try to block 

All of what I wright . obviously they are ashamed of what they did!   

In my youth I made a mistake marrying an Arab! 

who made my life A living hell!   and now as I  aged  I understood 

I should  have left, him the first week! but I didn't know how I had no courage.

I am grieving for the days, the minutes, the precious moments,

I spent trying to nurture, to love, to take care of my family.

That I was committed to, But they were not to me...

REGRETS! that is all I feel in my HEART!

I thank the Academia who helped in the BRAIN WASHING!

July 5 2012

Y.B

Physical Pain

A prayer for heeling.

God ! heal me

It is difficult to see things clearly, when you are in so much physical pain. It blocks the light entering your eyes, It blocks the joy entering your soul.

To get the full value of joy. you must forget that we have so many tears in the heart,  that never reached the eyes. With physical pain, you pray for a relief. You cry, you shed sparkling tears. You place your palms over your heart! and you try to see the unseen, imagine a rainbow in my heart.

God give me strength. I never asked for an easy life, but now I am praying for strength, to stand tall. In this life...

July 3 2012

Y.B

Yesterday I drowned

Yesterday I drowned

I could admit to myself that I am very sorry having linked my life to an evil men like my ex...Michael imseis.

A brutal husband, an evil father who polluted my children's souls, and sadly it is hurting my grandchildren. who were deprived of
having a relationship with me for most of their life. Now they don't know what to do with me...

Yesterday I realized the venom he nurtured my child with. My baby girl is out in the path of distraction of her soul with hatred. I don't know what I was thinking. I feel broken, melted, shattered.
 She made me feel if I was nothing  Nonexistent... she made it clear to me...

Yesterday I drowned... Yesterday my hopes, and dreams, vanished .
Yesterday my  heart died..

25 June 2012

Y.B

Steven M Schindler held most dear to my soul.

In the light of my friend I find second self

 

Dear  Steven

The news that you're sick is heavy on my heart. I just wanted you to know that the days, the hours, the minutes I spent with you,
I look upon them as a sort of perfumed garden, a fountain of magic waters.

You and you alone made me feel as if I had an angel looking over me. You were very  good to me. And yet at the same time you pained my heart very deeply.

In one hand you cherished me with that dignified tenderness which I only find in you... and yet pained me at the same time... I forgive you; I chose to see you as my angel who came to the gate of my paradise. you were there for me and so you give me the courage to keep standing alone.

I think that I was born to walk alone. The supreme happiness of life is the conviction of being loved for yourself or more correctly being loved in spite of yourself. You didn't love me that way.

And I for always will be sad that you didn't.

I hope that you are happy. I want and wish you health. If your world seems cold to you these days, please remember there is a girl in Toronto who forever has a heart full of compassion for you, angel...  I could warm up your world; I am your friend for life.

Hear is my commandment to you my friend... Love yourself, take care of yourself, let me know if I could do something for you. I hope that you can hear me with your ears, but listen to me with your eyes: you will win!!!

You are a winner...

Get well, be well, feel well, I wish I could see you and help...

June 10  2012
Y.B

Let myself down

I can't be hold my self to all the work



The bond that links family is not only one of blood, but of respect and joy in each others' lives, which was deprived of me. How can I fix it by myself? For where my heart is that is my responsibility. But where others' hearts are, is there responsibility? 

I cannot behold myself to do all the work to manage this relationship.

Before you can open the door to your heart which no one has an interest to walk through it.

Little girl, I didn't want to let you down. I am sorry. My highest purpose was as a human mother.
I wanted to justify the gift of life of all our lives. I thought we could continue the process of remaking
our relationship, but dear ones I can't do it by myself. Please be kind on my heart for it has been
fighting a battle for a long time. let us not love only in words or in talk. Let us put our words in action and make it real, encourage one another and build up one another...

You got to know that children are like wet cement. Whatever falls on them makes an impression. Try to show your children the paths to love. It is never too late...

 6 April 2012

YB

I wish



Angel D.. thanks for lighting up my life!

It has been a very difficult day. I am at a cross road. It feels as if it is the end of the road. Are all the doors closed? Where is the light at the end of the tunnel? This world is not for a broken mother like me. I am so tired and lonely.

I went to visit Shoshana at the hospital today. Talia was there looking at her mother with so much love and care I was jealous. It made me so sad looking at her. I felt sorry for myself. I wondered what would happen if I ever need help. Would I have anyone around me?

As if I heard my ex's vioce when he used to tell me: "You were born lonely and I am going to make sure that you will die lonely." Why would anyone be so evil?

I believe in miracles as I was putting this post up. My son in law called me and told me that they are coming to visit with me this evening. A miracle comes my way after 10 years of never seeing them....Thanks angel D....

Post went up March 11 2012.

Feb 23 1993

YB
 

Parental Alienation... Brainwashing my children Ardi Imseis Shirel pegios, and Elan imseis by my ex...



As my life blooms so as my spirit 

That is how my ex... an Arab got back at me his Jewish wife for leaving him after twenty two years of physical, mental, emotional, spiritual abuses. Parental alienation is bad enough with out having the Arab and Jewish conflicts in the middle.

The systematic brainwashing, the poisoning and manipulation of my three children with the sole purpose of destroying my loving relationship that I shared with them. It doesn't always happen to man. In my case, I am the mother and my ex... did it to me. He started the alienation when we were still living together, abusing me in front of the children, calling me names, antisemitic remarks putting me down to below zero...

I never had a name...  it was dirty Jew... He and his family... His mother actually came to visit him from Israel and she told him no way she was staying with a dirty Jew in the house. He came up with the idea for me and the children to leave the house. He would rent me an apartment and when she went back home I could return to the house. That was the second time we separated. He left, went to his brother with the mother for 8 months. He did not support us. My friends did a collection and supported us food, mortgage and all other expenses. He was arrested and put in jail over night after 8 months that they were trying to serve him. The day I took him back, he was arrested.

I had no choice... I was trapped. This is my personal journey. The last time that we separated, judgment was that we would have to rent our apartments. I would have my own place, my ex would have his. And the children would stay in the house. There was no way that was possible: I had no job, lost my business,  had no money for two residents and the house.

My oldest son Elan told me if I did not leave, he would not come to the house. It was snowing and cold late evening. I had to call his father to come home and I left with understanding that once I had a place, the two little ones, Shirel and  would come back to live with me. My ex changed his mind and he started the nightmare: the brainwash. He poisoned their mind against Jews and the Western world. My son A was taken to Israel when he was underage, and was converted into Christianity without me knowing it. I found out 4 years later.


He ended up in East Jerusalem and later in Gaza for many years. He did every thing possible to alienate me from them. They shunned me totally and that is how I lost 3 children that he never wanted to have. They where all I had, and  they were my life...

Now I am living without the most important part of my life, with a broken heart,  a broken soul, and a broken spirit.

March 9 2012

YB

God walks me through

My spirit garden

 



Walk this path with me. Climb up this mountain. Lead me to the top of my dreams. Help me navigate this voyage called life. Let me not do it alone for it will be lonely. So Angel within my heart whispers a sweet  melody into my soul and spirit.

Show me the way to the garden of my soul where the air is clear, where the tender spring flowers will bloom, where the sun will rise and the moon will shine brightly.

And I with the Angel girl within my heart who still always believe in miracles, she is forever seeing light shining right in the centre of the darkness. The purity of her heart can hear and see the Angel within lighting her path...

March 6 2012

YB                                                    

This morning

Light for the soul

To wake up this morning realizing a new day is here, a new gift to the soul, the heart, air to breath. Things do not change, we do.  Wonder if I did? All I want is to be able to inhale the morning breeze, find happiness in the miracle of morning glory, love all that is around me, fly upon the wings of forgiveness, commit myself to life of peace and harmony.....

This will be my gift for me this morning, a prayer... It takes a whole life to master the art of living. Wonder how long do I have? Every grief will soften and heal with time. I inhale the glory of this morning, for it is mine.

I will absorb the beauty, the sunlight. I will daydream. May the light of hopes shine and illuminate the hearts of beloved ones. Keep climbing the mountain and forever remember that those who are hurt the most are the ones who care a lot...

I care a lot... For this morning, let go of the yesterday. Don't think of the challenges of tomorrow and live your life today...

March 5 2012

YB

My Baby Boy - love you for always

My baby boy I am lonely for you

my baby boy; I feel sorry for you. How can you hate who you are and what you are?  A brainwashed child that was
taught to hate himself by the person who was supposed to love you.  He should have taught you to be proud of all that you are, including your roots. baby, my love, you may be able to hide it but in your heart you know that you hate half of yourself.

Your father knew that when he inspired you to hate anything Jewish or anything to do with Jews, he was putting poison in your heart. Is that love?  No!!

It is not in the Jewish, or Christian. or Muslim religions wherever good humans are. You are brainwashed
with an ideology, filthy with poison, of hatred, and bigotry. You were used as a bullet against your own mother, your own roots, and your own self. You are a man with no pride, no real love. You are teaching
International Laws. Perhaps it will be more appropriate for you to teach international hatred, and antisemitism. What a pity!

You are  actually walking at the university classrooms full of students to teach law and human rights. How could you, knowing that you are depriving your own children from exercising their own birth right and human rights to have their grand mother in their lives... Would the love of a Jewish grandmother be any different from the love of a Christian or a Muslim grandmother? I would love to know.

You are living a life of a liar. You are being a bigot full of hatred. That is my darling. What some Arabs do teach their children to hate anything and everything Jewish or Western... You are dishonest with your  children, your students and most important of all, to yourself, your heart and soul if you still have one.

I will  pray for you every day that some day you will see the light of love and compassion and will embrace them in your heart and soul. You broke my heart. and left me in pain that some times it feels as if it could never heal. I know it will heal one of these days. I know that we are the memories we keep in our hearts. I am trying very hard to let those memories go... I pray that my heart will never lose its sparkling shine.

Your Jewish mother and proud of it!

March 2, 2012

YB

A sad memory




Your brightened my path. Thank you, Mom.

Mama Hana resting place



For ever in my heart



 This is the time of my mother's Passing Anniversary. She passed away the 4th of April 1950 -- 62 years ago.                                                                                                                                                                                

At the Passover Jewish holiday, this is the place she was put to rest. I never witnessed her resting place until I was 33 years old. I went with the big fat man, Richard Harlow who said in a slow quiet voice, "I will go with you to Marrakesh. I will give you my love and support that you need."



He did not realize how much I needed to know that I will be supported by him. I will owe him my thanks for life. I couldn't have shared that with my X.... He was too evil to share such a holy journey with.

How wonderful it was to do it at a time in my life that I was in a secure place and felt comfort. The big fat man Richard, he was with me all the way. He stood by me. Instead of facing it alone, he was with me all the way. And for that I will forever have a special prayer for him.

I thanked him with tears raining down my face. Walking in the old Jewish cemetery was like walking on the face of the moon and very mystical. For that I thank him... This is the place...

Oct 1984

YB

My inner child

Keep your voice  heard

Little girl, when I look into your eyes, I somehow see you  as you  have  never been  seen before.

You look as if dear life depends on me listening to you  and hearing your voice. I am all ears for you, child. Lean on me. I hear you. I see trough the windows of your soul. Your eyes....they have a story to tell. It is your story. Your voice have a song to sing. It is your song.

Tell me your story! Sing me your song! When your heart is ready, take my hand. I will climb motherhood, sisterhood, paths with you in my heart. Embrace. I will step from

inhibition, caring for you little girl, to put you on a cloud of happiness, tenderness, and serenity...

Splashing with you in a warm fulfilment, alive by your side. I will stand true, ready to dance in the cold and warm river of life.

Let's dance child. Let's dream of a kinder spirit around us. Dreams are free. We may dream the impossible wishes. They may never come true but following our dreams may lead us to ourselves.

I will take care of you. No one will ever tell you to keep your voice silent... No one, for self-disclosing oneself is a gift...



Oct 17, 1994

YB